I'm not sure if Jon has checked other rods yet, but if it was horse power related I'd expect more bent ones. Going lean generates a lot of heat and the piston can seize, break ring lands, etc and with one piston / rod destroyed that's what it looks like at least on the surface. Jon says he had pumps failing likely a result of the BAP use over time. Seen that more than once and it's kind of a bad deal because the pump doesn't just fail, it just gets weak which is a worse case scenario.
I think I saw it was cylinder 2 and another forum member had the same failure. The front cylinders are farthest from the fuel line, so could be a variable. As fuel pressure starts to not keep up those could be the first to go lean. The logs/sensors are aggregate across all 4 cylinders on each bank so some cylinders could be more lean than others.
@vortecd you getting rid of the BAP?